This Has To Stop.

So lately there has been a shit load of talk around about little girls calling their ex-boyfriends 'sloppy-seconds', 'toys' and other things we don't need to go into. To all of the girls who are saying this, stop that shit.

Now. 

Those boys may have broken your heart but do you think that they don't feel anything either?  Yes, they have feelings; believe it or not. And you shouldn't call them horrible things and their new girlfriends even more horrible names. 

Those boys are not 'un-worthy' just because you broke up with them or vice-versa. They still hold a special value that all humans posses; in fact...by calling them worthless and their new girlfriends whores, you are taking away your self worth. You're not making yourself look any better. 

Yes, it may hurt when you two break up but that doesn't mean you can't forget the good times you've had. If your cat died would you forget all of the cuddles and cute things that you two shared? (Not saying a loved one is like a common house pet). There was a reason that you found that person date-able, that reason will always stay there. All that changes is that you two are not meant to be. 

The scary thing about relationships is that you are either going to marry them, or break up with them. Those boys were worth the risk; doesn't mean they aren't to another girl or boy. 

So please be kind to one another.